
The Psychology of Bullying: Support for Victims and Bullies
As Dr. Peyman Tashkandi, I have sat across from many families who feel hopeless, confused, and heartbroken by the effects of bullying. Whether a parent is worried about a child who is being targeted or concerned about a child who is acting out aggressively, the emotions are intense. In my practice, I have learned that bullying is rarely a black-and-white issue. It is a complex psychological dance that involves deep-seated emotions, social dynamics, and learned behaviors. To truly solve this problem, we cannot just punish the bad behavior and comfort the victim. We must look at the psychology behind the actions. We need to understand what drives a child to bully and what happens inside the mind of the child being bullied. By taking a compassionate, psychological approach, we can turn a painful situation into an opportunity for growth and emotional maturity. This is where professional guidance and structured interventions,

















